Lessening Loneliness

Ignite: Be All That You Can Be (Series 6)
LESSENING LONELINESS
Genesis 41:37 - 40

This culture idealizes independence and individuality, the result is a loss of friendships and community.

I. Joseph Experienced Loneliness Because…

A. He was alienated from his family.

As a youth he was spoiled and self-centered, brash and cocky.

He was the obvious favorite of his parents. They dressed him in a special way and gave him special favors.

His brothers hated him so much they wanted nothing to do with him.

B. He felt that no one cared.

As Joseph went off with the slave traders it was to that point the worst moment of his life.

He would never see his mother again she would die in childbirth and he did not know he had a new brother.

The emotional weight must have been crushing, loneliness had him in its ugly clutches.

C. He felt there was no hope.

Each passing day brought the depressing realization that he would be a slave the rest of his life.

His emotions had to reach an all time low.

II. Joseph Overcame Loneliness Because…

A. He maintained his integrity.

He did not give up, give in, or adapt to the culture and sin against his God.

My master has withheld nothing from me except you, because you are his wife. How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?” Genesis 39:9.

He knew that if he became alienated from God it would be the worst loneliness of all.

B. He found meaningful work.

Joseph never quit doing the right thing.

When his master saw that the Lord was with him and that the Lord gave him success in everything he did, Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household, and he entrusted to his care everything he owned” Genesis 39:3-4.

C. He forgave those who had wronged him.

If Joseph had allowed it resentment could have taken over his life.

Joseph said to his brothers You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. So then, don’t be afraid. I will provide for you and your children.’ And he reassured them and spoke kindly to them” Genesis 50:20-21

Forgiveness is one of the greatest healers of loneliness.

>There can be no reconciliation if there is no forgiveness.

>If there is no reconciliation there can be no restoration of our relationships.

>If there is no restoration of relationships there is loneliness.

I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11